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Your Guide to Shopping for Your First Dildo

Buying your first sex toy is a rite of passage for any woman or man who wants to take self-pleasure to a whole new level. But let’s face it – knowing what you should buy is tough. Walk into any sex store and you will likely see an entire wall displaying the different types of dildos to choose from. Go online and it only becomes even more overwhelming, with thousands upon thousands of different brands and designs promising to tickle your fancy. Knowing what you want is the only way to ensure you make the right decision, so here are the things you should always think about before buying a dildo…


As we said before, there are a million and one different dildos on the markets and they come in almost every material under the sun. There’s the usual suspects such as silicon and rubber, but also stone, metal, wood, jelly and glass. It’s important to make sure you’re buying from a reputable brand who uses medical-grade materials, as you don’t want to be using anything down there that will turn your pleasure into pain.


Size is up there as one of the most important aspects of dildo decision-making. Too big and you won’t be able to use it, too small and it won’t get the job done. For most first-time users, a moderately sized option is usually best but if you’re still unsure you can even use your fingers to roughly measure what feels best for you.


The shape of your dildo will decide what sensation it gives you, as differently shaped options will hit different spots. Curved dildos will be more like to stimulate your G-spot or prostate, providing heightened pleasure and often more intense orgasms. A straight dildo, however, is the right option for you if you are looking for something that feels more like penetration.


All those bumps and ridges you see on different dildos? That will decide just how intense the stimulation will be while you’re using it. The more texture it has, the more intense it will be. The material also comes into play again here, as a firm material will also contribute to a more powerful experience.

If you’re looking to purchase high quality sex toys that will tick all your boxes, Sexy Secrets Shop is the best place to find them. Shop our online store today to find what you need.

What Can We Expect from the Future of Sex Robots?

It’s been talked about as a distant possibility for years but now it seems that technology is finally being used to satisfy your most realistic sexual desires – you guessed it, sex robots are here.

They speak to you, they respond to your touch, they are even capable of playing various different ‘roles’ depending on what you’re looking for. Sure, at the moment they cost a few thousand dollars a pop, but in the coming years we can expect these lifelike creations to dominate the sex toy industry.

You might be asking yourself, ‘what’s so good about a sex robot anyway?’ Well, for some people, a regular sex toy like a vibrator, dildo or blow up doll just doesn’t cut it. Instead, some of us crave closeness and company; realistic experiences that mimic what it’s like to be with a human. Sex robots have the capacity to give us this. Although most are still in the early stages of development, inventors have already nailed the ability to provide basic skills such as talking, responding to certain words or phrases and responding to intimate moments with realistic behaviour. One Spanish inventor even managed to create a robot with a G-spot, allowing you to simulate giving pleasure as well as receiving it. Experts are predicting that in the next decade or so, we will see the advancement of robots designed to deliver our deepest fantasies in a more affordable and accessible way.

As we come closer and closer to creating realistic sex technology, the question has to be asked; is there a chance that people will choose robots over real, living, breathing humans? You might feel relieved to know that most experts don’t think this will happen, as consumers of this technology still see robots as a form of sex toy. One thing that is for certain though is that in the coming years, the sex toy industry is sure to become very interesting.

Feeds of Fornication: Bringing Treats into the Bedroom

As strange as Seinfeld’s George Costanza was, there can be no denying that he was an ideas man. So, in the episode where he was seen emerging from under the covers during a romp with one of his many lovers, having a quick bite of a sandwich before returning under the sheets, it’s fair to say he was onto something. And he’s not alone, many people throughout existence have enjoyed bringing some culinary temptations into the act of coitus, and the team at Sexy Secrets are all for it.

To celebrate the delicious wedding of sex and sustenance, we have put together a little list of our favourite fare to take to the bedroom or, the kitchen.

Classic creamy goodness

This isn’t that scene from Varsity Blues, this is reality. Whipped cream is one of the world’s most delicious puffed up sweet things, and is perfect for licking off a lover’s body. Put it wherever you fancy, squeeze out as much as you desire, and begin the kissing, sucking, and licking off of this sensual sweetener.

Enjoying the fruits of your labour

Sex and fruit go together like chicken and avocado: they’re a winning combination. Fruit is light, sweet (mostly) and you feel good when you’re eating it, so why not bring in strawberries and pineapple into bed? Don’t mind the juices getting onto your mattress I mean, you’re making love, things are about to get pretty messy anyway, right?

Cheesin’ for a pleasin’

Everybody loves cheese. In fact, recent studies have suggested that cheese can be addictive, makes sense, right? Brie, camembert, bleu, gruyere, choose your favourite dairy goodness, and take it right to the milking room. Turn your room into a fromagerie of fornication with a wealth of oozy, cheesy goodness. The pleasure will be amplified.

And of course, our tasty goodies

Phallic candies, butter caramel body paint, weenie linguini, Sexy Secrets has a wealth of deliciously sensual edibles at our online store. Fun, playful, and tasty, our range of edible delicacies are the perfect way to bring some excitement into the culinary wonderland of your sexual appetite. Your sexual desire will be enhanced by the erotic styles and the enjoyment of sinful delights will lead to sexual pleasure on a whole new level.

Feel free to browse our range, they are simple delectable.

Porn and Prurience: Film to Spice Up Your Sex Life

Many couples go through the painful experience of lacking a carnal lust for one another. At some stage of the relationship, the standard foreplay onto quick head and missionary doesn’t carry the same weight as it once did. Things get dull, boring, the sex becomes lifeless. Whilst Australians are a generally culturally prudish bunch, this doesn’t mean we can’t give into the desire of prurience: Latin for “having an itching desire”. This itching desire could be for toys, it could be for something more adventurous say, anal. Many couples find they have a desire to switch on the laptop and go to a trusted pornography website.

Sexy Secrets applaud a couple who are not afraid to test the boundaries and get digital with their digits, search some bawdy stuff in the internet search bar and enjoy some hardcore porn.

We’d like to tell you why we think it’s a good idea.

It reignites your passion for sex

First and foremost, getting on the Wi-Fi and looking up a bit of erotic entertainment gets the blood flowing, and makes the sex brilliant. Don’t see it as admitting a lack of attraction to one another: see it as a new exploration of one another’s sexual preferences, boundaries, enjoyments. Using porn as a part of foreplay is a great way to get started on the steaminess: as you watch the hands become more sensual, more caressing, stroking, it will simply open up a new sexual frontier for you and your lover. You will soon find a reinvigorated passion for sex that you thought you had lost, and the sex will never be better.

It creates trust

Wait, hear me out, it really does create trust! If you have been in a relationship that has suffered from the niggling pains of jealousy: worrying about who your partner is looking at and vice-versa, worrying about them flirting with colleagues, whatever, watching some romantic fornication with them can help ease these stresses. You become more used to your partner watching another man or woman in the act of coitus. This isn’t to say they want to experience this in real life, but being more comfortable with them watching another person making love will make you comfortable when out and about, not so worried if they had a quick glance at that ripped guy or fit girl walking down the street. They want you – and you will be more comfortable with that after a few internet sessions.

Add some toys to it

If you want to add a few cheeky appendages to your porn viewing, you’ve cum to the right place. Sexy Secrets have a wealth of tantalising toys available at our online store, and we’re more than happy to provide you with them in the hope of further enhancing you and your love’s sexual desire for one another.

Everything You Want (And Need) to Know About Male and Female Erogenous Zones

When it comes to getting turned on and pleasuring your partner, most people focus on the genitals and forget that our bodies are packed with areas that are made to be focused on during our most intimate moments.

If you haven’t heard of them before, an erogenous zone is a part of the body that has heightened sensitivity to touch, vibration, pressure and other sensations. Most importantly though, it contributes to sexual pleasure when stimulated. Both men and women have several erogenous zones throughout their body that can contribute to heightened sexual satisfaction. So where are these areas and how can they be used to take your sex life to new heights? Read on to find out.

For the ladies…


We’re guessing that if you have had any experience with women, you’ll know that the clitoris is the stimulation hotspot that should never be ignored. With hundreds of thousands of nerve-endings packed into this tiny area, research has shown that focusing on this area (specifically with pressure and vibration) is the fastest way to make your lady orgasm.

Breasts and nipples

Breasts aren’t just pleasurable for men to look at. they also provide plenty of satisfaction for women too when stimulated correctly of course. Just like the clitoris, putting pressure and vibration on the nipple area is the best way to arouse a woman above the belt.


When women were surveyed about the areas of the body that most turn them on, the base and the nape of the neck both landed a top 10 spot. Sensitive and light to the touch, this is a key area to focus on if you’re trying to get your girl warmed up during foreplay.

For the men…


Just like the clitoris, the scrotum is home to thousands of nerve-endings that make it super sensitive to the touch. The good news is that men overwhelmingly agree that this area is a great way to get them going. The bad news is that research has had a hard time figuring out what type of touch works best, so perhaps it’s time to get experimenting…


This small area between the anus and the scrotum has plenty of nerve endings that sent pleasure signals straight to the brain. If that’s not enough to get you interested in paying attention down there, we don’t know what is.


Just like women, men’s nipples are very sensitive to the touch. Light pressure is best when it comes to this area, making it a great zone to focus on for foreplay.

The Craziest Hi-Tech Sex Toys on the Market

What do you get when you combine innovative technology with niche sexual interests? Weird and wonderful erotic toys, of course. It seems that every few months heralds the debut of a new sex product that pushes the boundaries of technology even further. Take a look at these hi-tech creations and see just how far technology has come in the world of sex toys…

The Electric Eel

Fancy having electrical impulses sent up your shaft via a material condom? Then the Electric Eel is for you. This toy is wired with electrodes that aim to magnify the vibrations that you experience during penetration. The impulse settings can be changed via a microcontroller, depending on how intense you want the experience to be. But the question must be asked: sex toy or torture device? We’ll leave you to figure that one out.

The Siime Eye

This option is for anyone who has ever wondered what the inside of their girlfriend’s vagina looks like. Essentially a vibrator with a camera on the end, the Siime Eye has been dubbed ‘the GoPro of sex toys’ by critics and enthusiasts alike. Controlled via Bluetooth technology by pairing with your smartphone, this toy allows you to see inside the vagina with the help of a low-level light. Call it weird or wonderful, this one is sure to make for an interesting time in the bedroom for those couples who dare to use it.

The Launchpad

The Launchpad is perhaps as close to simulated sex as we currently have, as it allows users to strap their iPad to a slate that is also connected to a fleshlight. From there, you can watch porn and enjoy live sex cams in a way that simulates oral sex from the receivers point of view. While arguably the least technologically advanced on the list, you can’t deny that such a relatively simple idea is sure to make a few men very, very happy.


Robotic sex dolls have been anticipated for a while now, and the Realdoll might be the most realistic option currently on the market. Priced at more than $5000, this toy has it all; fingers that move, computer controlled speech and the ability to perform hip movements like a real woman. Some call it creepy, others call it the way of the future. Perhaps only time will tell.

My Problem, My Solution: Finding the Perfect Vibrator for Me

Okay, I’m not afraid to admit it: I love a little ‘me’ time, and I love to have it in my bedroom with the blinds drawn and the door closed. Of course, in my years of self-pleasure, I haven’t limited myself to the use of the index and middle fingers.

I love experimenting with new gadgets to find that perfect mix of subtle tickle and outright pleasure, but at the end of the day, I always want to be able to make myself reach the perfect climax, each one hopefully being as good as the last.

But for a long time, I couldn’t find the right instrument of enjoyment. I went through three vibrators in as little as six months, thoroughly disappointed with their lack of ability to stimulate my spot in just the right way, and for their lack of versatility and options.

It was, in all honesty, becoming a very frustrating situation. I believe in pleasure as an enjoyable method of relaxation, whether it be with a partner or all by my lonesome, and therefore I needed the right toy to get me going.

I found the perfect accomplice

Luckily for me, one night I was having a couple of drinks with a friend when the conversation took on more of a cheeky turn. She informed me that she had once had the same problem in trying to find the perfect vibrator for her needs.

She said the way to go was with Rabbit – in particular, the ultra-enjoyable Advanced G Jack Rabbit.

Upon purchasing the toy, unwrapping it from its packaging and examining it in detail, I was almost overwhelmed. This toy had so many differing functions: 10 varying vibrations, pulsations, and escalations; four differing speeds; rotating beads – simply everything you could think of. It was almost hard to know where to get started.

But upon using this wonderful little gadget, things changed. This isn’t just your standard vibrator; it is the perfect vibrator for women who like to mix things up in a big way: you can start slow and soft, gently warming yourself up to greater speeds of intense pleasure. Its adorable bunny ears tickle and work your spot perfectly, helping you reach the ultimate climax.

Since getting one of these little gadgets, I haven’t looked back. The Advanced G Jack Rabbit is perfect for me, and I’m confident it will be for many women.

Surprising My Fling with Fetishist Things

Many sexually timid people would say I was bit upfront in surprising the guy I’ve been seeing for a month with fetishist goodies, but I love the element of surprise, it really turns me on.

Don’t get me wrong, the month we had been seeing each other for moved rather fast, with plenty of passionate evenings spent together in the build-up to my suggestion of spicing things up a bit with the titillating toys I had hidden away in my cupboard.

It was just like any other passionate evening: we had dinner and a few drinks at a bar, and then went back to my place. However, on this occasion I had a few things hidden away that I wanted to finally unleash on this guy. I wasn’t even afraid of asking him as he seemed like the kind of guy who just might go for a walk on the wild side.

My proposal

We got back to mine, and things got intense upon entering the lounge room. We were on the couch, making out, when I said to him, “Hey, I’ve got some things I want to show you… but you can’t judge, okay?”. He answered with a slightly apprehensive, “Yeah, sure”.

I took his hand and led him to the bedroom, flicked the light on, sat him down on the bed, and made my way to the cupboard. Digging around, I produced a pair of Bad Kitty Butterfly Nipple Clamps. To my delight, he was pleasantly surprised. Yes, I thought to myself, I’ve passed the first test.

He said he would be happy to give them a go, and so I said I had some more goodies hidden away. He quickly became excited and intrigued.

From then on, I produced a pair of flexible restraints and a cat-o-nine tails. I could see his face become red out of a mix of excitement, and perhaps embarrassment at being a novice with such apparatuses.

Needless to say, it was a thoroughly enjoyable evening of unbridled sexual pleasure. And there were many more to come – in the end, I can confidently say it wasn’t the sex that caused the breakup of our relationship.

I like to think I took my slightly prudish little friend to whole new levels in sexual pleasure, and sex is something that should be experimented with: toys are fun, being extra naughty is fun, so why not jump right in and test the boundaries.

How to Introduce Sex Toys into Your Relationship

So you’ve been dating someone for a few months now. Many tantalising hours spent in the bedroom have taught you what really leaves them wanting more – and you’ve got a sneaking suspicion that using toys might just fit into that category. But how do you broach the subject without it feeling awkward and uncomfortable? Let us walk you through it and we promise you’ll have a drawer full of secret goodies in no time.

Communication is key

When it comes to using sex toys in a relationship, it’s very easy for one party to feel insecure or uncomfortable with the idea. This could be because they see it as a criticism of their own performance, or because they worry that the toy will replace them entirely. While these concerns may sound silly to you, it’s important to make sure your partner understands why you feel you would both benefit from introducing this into your bedroom, while listening to their concerns if they have any. This is likely to be the biggest roadblock, which is why we would never recommend surprising them with a vibrator, cock ring or butt plug before you’ve had the right conversation.

Find out what you like

Once you’ve got the conversation covered, now the fun really begins. Talking about what you would both enjoy in the bedroom can be a huge turn on in itself, as it usually uncovers those fantasies that you may not have explored as a couple yet. Perhaps your man wants to use a vibrating cock ring while you have always enjoyed the thought of intense clitoral stimulation while also being penetrated. Or maybe anal play is more up your alley, making a butt plug or anal beads the way to go. Whatever it is, this can act as foreplay for the main event.

Take a trip to the sex store

Now the time has come to pick your pleasure. Make your way to an adult shop to browse the aisles and find something that you both like the look of. Remember that the sales assistants in these stores are usually quite knowledgeable about the items they sell, so if you are comfortable telling them what you’re looking for they could really help you pick a winner. But if you’re uncomfortable with physically going to pick out your toy, there are a wealth of reputable online sex toys that are sure to stock what you’re looking for. All it takes is a quick browse online to discover something that really tickles your fancy.

Trying out your new toy

We don’t think we really need to explain this one. Unboxing your toy and using it for the first time might leave you feeling giddy with excitement, which is exactly what you want when you bring something new into the bedroom. Once you’ve taken the time to really explore how best to maximise each other’s pleasure, you’ll be wondering why you didn’t try it earlier.

What You Need to Know About Anal

Anal sex can be a taboo pleasure to partake in, but the truth is that while it may not be widely talked about, almost everybody is doing it. Research has shown that up to 60% of women are engaging in anal intercourse with their partners, while more and more men are choosing to join in on the action as well. And why wouldn’t they when anal penetration has the potential to be a mind-blowing experience, reaching erogenous spots and nerve endings that can’t be reached via vaginal intercourse.

The pleasure is entirely different of vaginal penetration, making it an exciting road to travel down. But if you want to satisfy your curiosity, there are a few things you should know first…

Take it easy

In case you’ve been left in the dark until now, we’re here to let you know that the anus is very, very different to the vagina when it comes to sex. So trust us when we say that going at it like you do with vaginal penetration just won’t cut it. Feeling completely at ease and in the moment is the first step to enjoying anal, as it allows the muscles around your anus to relax, which in turn makes penetration more enjoyable. If you’re scared, nervous or simply not wanting to try anal at all, it’s probably going to give you more pain than pleasure (and probably not in the good way).

The best way to avoid this is to communicate well with your partner and really work your way up to anal penetration. This might mean spending a bit more time with foreplay before testing the waters with a finger or a toy, such as anal beads or a butt plug. Once you feel you’re ready, your first time trying anal should be taken slowly while both you and your partner get an idea for what feels good for both of you.

Don’t forget to lube up

Anal sex without lube is rarely a good idea, as the anus doesn’t produce any natural lubrication in the same way the vagina does. Even if you’re extremely turned on and feel like you’re ready to go, both the giver and the receiver could be in a lot of pain if you’re not properly lubed up. The last thing you want is to ruin anal for yourself almost as soon as you start, so make sure you have a bottle of lube at the ready at all times.

Add to your toy collection

Just like with vaginal intercourse, there is no shortage of exciting toys to experiment with when it comes to anal play. From plugs and dildos to massagers and products that are specifically designed to reach those hard to find erogenous spots, these toys are a great way to find out what you enjoy. As you become more comfortable with anal sex, you can start looking for better – and perhaps bigger – toy options that will maximise you and your partners pleasure.