Breaking Taboos: My First Time with a Bondage Kit

This isn’t your standard Fifty Shades of Grey fluffed up fictional story: this actually happened. I had never been one for using bondage equipment, that is to say I never even really thought about it up until this night. When those books came out it never in crossed my mind to read them and I still haven’t. I know what they’re about and why would I have to read about bondage when I can now enjoy it whenever I want? Why fantasise about something through some novel when I get to have the real deal? There is a first time for everything, and the first time I experienced the sexual pleasure of bondage was after my second ever Tinder date.

I was excited to have matched with this guy: he looked damncute. In messages he was funny, came across as charming (as much as you can through messaging) so I thought hey, why the hell not go out with him? He exuded sexual energy from the moment I met him: flowing brown curls, a charismatic smile and personality and he had a gorgeous Mediterranean tan. I knew that although it was the first date we were going to end up sleeping with one another. The vibe was there, and he gave me those long, cheeky looks that say “yeah, we’re doing this” and I gave them back.

Going back to his place

I went, of course I did, the sexual energy between us was just too overpowering. As soon as we got through his door we went for it: throwing each down onto the couch, the floor, wherever we could unleash our lust for one another. But all of a sudden he stopped and said, “wait here, I’ll just be a sec”. I barely had to time to catch my breath before he had come out from his bedroom with a leather carry bag. I was confused, maybe concerned, but with the utmost confidence he produced a gag, cuffs and a whip and asked, “are you keen?” I laughed and double took the contents of the bag but just said, “f**k it, I’m down”.

What transpired was an evening of sinful, sexual pleasure I can happily say I experience most times I go to bed with a guy (unless there more on the prudish side, of course).

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