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4 Must-Have Smartphone Apps to Turn Up the Heat

With the world revolving around technology, why not take advantage of the digital revolution to enhance your bedroom ‘playtime’? Intimacy is transforming and bringing your smartphone into the bedroom is just another way to jump on board the new trend and ride it all the way to O-town. To help you, we’ve put together a list of our favourite sexy apps to keep you trembling with temptation.

iKarmasutra Lite

This app delivers the wisdom of the world’s infamous sex guide right to your pocket. With sex positions and tips overflowing across nine different categories, you will never be at a loss for something new. Tasteful images accompany the scintillating information and the app even allows you to track your progression through the extensive list. You can also use the app to generate a collection of favourites to pull out when you simply need to get the job done or you can use the randomise function by shaking the phone for a quick, new lovemaking idea.


In the bedroom, not everything is about what you do or how you do it. The concept of the popular app, Pillow, suggests that pleasure in the bedroom relies on the connection you have with your partner. Through the 30-day audio program, you will experience exercises designed and presented by coaches, therapists and tantra tutors to build communication, increase emotional intimacy and maximise desire for one another through flirtatious teasing. Boost both your confidence and your longing for one another and allow your evening to slip into a physical celebration of your appreciation for one another.


Why not use your sexual yearning practically? Did you know 30 minutes of knocking mops is equivalent to a full court basketball game, 2 pilates classes or an hour on the treadmill? It burns the same number of calories as a whole Big Mac, 2 hotdogs or 3 finger buns. The geniuses at PornHub have developed an app that allows you to have your buns and eat them too! BangFit focusses on keeping you fit AND improving your sex life! ‘Sexercise’ is the best way to describe the premise of this app and we love it!


We-Connect is the app that works in conjunction with the We-Vibe Sync. Have your partner at your mercy with this app-controlled vibrator. Tease, tantalise and tempt, keeping your partner on the hook and loving every moment. You can purchase a We-Vibe Sync vibrator at Sexy Secrets Shop to keep your lover lusting long-time.

10 Artists That Kill the Mood Every Time!

A sexy soundtrack can spice up the seduction in the bedroom but if you’re not careful, it could turn things right around…for the worse! Check out our list of the top artists to avoid on your pound-town playlist.

MC Hammer

He really only has the one hit but it’s a doozie when it comes to shaking in the sheets. ‘U Can’t Touch This’ is so recognisable and so NOT sexy that, if it came on in the bedroom, it might just have the power to friendzone you instantly! Don’t risk it — keep your ‘Hammertime’ to the dancefloor.

Village People

There is no doubt your “young man” will be feeling “down” if this camp classic hits the airwaves. Songs like ‘Y.M.C.A’ and ‘In The Navy’ are certainly not arousing, nor will they inspire intimacy. Stick to the sultry sounds of more erotic artists.


‘Everybody Hurts,’ yes, but do you really want that kind of pain creeping into the bedroom? R.E.M. were one of the first alternative rock bands and their songs really will make you want to exercise the alternative if they seep into your bedroom rodeo. Sex be gone and back to the couch with you!


Unless you are up for some serious sexercise, 80s-style, Wham! should stay well and truly out of the bedroom. With kitsch classics like ‘Wake Me Up Before You Go Go’ and ‘Last Christmas’, a Wham! soundtrack on your naughty nights will bring the mood right back down to a solid G-rating.

The Lonely Island

While this trio are hilarious, the crass nature of their lyrics really isn’t conducive to seduction or sensuality. Hits like ‘Dick in a Box,’ ‘Jizz in My Pants’ and ‘I Just Had Sex’ are definitely likely to make you feel dirty — but not in a good way!


No. Just no! Enya is responsible for ethereal, annoying and oh-so-boring songs like ‘Orinoco Flow’ (a.k.a. Sail Away) and ‘Only Time’ (the one you hear at funerals). Needless to say — not a winner in the sack!

Celine Dion

Talk about corny! If it doesn’t make you laugh, you’ll likely cry. Celine Dion could, quite possibly, be the worst artist to make love to. Imagine, if you will, you are getting closer and closer to climax. You’re teasing each other, peaking in unison until, suddenly, you hear the pennywhistle solo from ‘My Heart Will Go On’ from Titanic. Let me assure you, nothing will deflate you quicker.

Ultimate Role-Playing Scenarios for You and Your Lover

Whether you’re a seasoned home-sexologist or someone new to the idea of games in the bedroom, role-playing is a fun and sexy way to liven up things with your lover. When people think of role-playing they immediately cast their minds to those poorly-produced, under-budgeted pornos where the pizza delivery comes to the door only to sit down on the couch, open the lid and reveal his giant boner is stabbing through the cardboard box and the pizza.

We here at Sexy Secrets Shop aren’t saying that your role-playing endeavours shouldn’t run along these lines, but we thought we would give you a cheeky list of some other sensual scenarios you can try out for you and your lover.

Roles for Raunchiness

  1. Bad Boss: Whilst Fifty Shades of Grey may be a questionable choice among readers and film lovers, the allure remains the same – the bad boss and naughty secretary is an age-old favourite for spicing things up at home and in the office. You and your lover pretend one is boss and the other secretary (because the male doesn’t have to be the boss), pretend the assistant has messed something up and deserves to be punished accordingly.
  2. The Home Porn Stars: Because, let’s be honest – who hasn’t thought about making a porno at home? With the wealth of cameras available right there in the bedroom (smart phones, tables, webcams etc.) it is easy to step over that barrier and say “hey, why don’t we give that porno a shot?” Incorporate some further role-playing into like they do in the biz and you’ve got yourself a whole afternoon of fun. Just ensure you don’t go sending it once you’ve made – it should always be you and your lover’s sexy secret.
  3. The Masseuse and Client: There is almost nothing as sexy as placing your naked lover down on a bed and under a towel. You begin by rubbing lotion into them and giving them a sexy massage, first in less erogenous places, then in more sensual spots. For example, start somewhere absolutely not sexy like the back or lower legs before slowly and sexually making your way to their pleasure zones. The anticipation for the recipient is hard to bear, and the pleasurable lovemaking that soon ensues is absolutely amazing.

They’re our three favourite role plays, what are yours? If you have enjoyed these little tips for creating the ultimate role-play romp at home, then check out our other available blogs. If you are interested in bringing some toys into your role-playing, by all means check out the store at Sexy Secrets Shop.

Happy acting, lovers!

Three (More) Out There Things That Turn Women On

The age-old question of what women want in the bedroom (or outside of it) is one that still manages to baffle the world’s scientists, psychologists, sexologists and any other ists you can think of who have popped their name on a study relating to the female orgasm. Being such an outrageously popular field of study for men and women around the globe naturally the results have become wide, varied and occasionally, bizarre.

Depending on where you look you can find something new that apparently turns a woman on, and studies have yielded some out there results. Sexy Secrets Shop has collated a few of these more curious (depending on how you look at it) methods of female stimulation for your reading pleasure.


The List

  1. Apes Copulating: Meredith Chivers once conducted a now famous study which sought to find out exactly what women want. The study displayed a variety of pornography clips, one of which included bonobos mating. The study measured their vaginal lubrication and blood flow, and soon found that the mating apes stimulated both straight and lesbian women. What they didn’t find too attractive? A clip of a ripped, naked man walking down the beach – we say fair enough.
  2. Beards, Old Ones at That: A recent study undertaken for Evolution in Human Behaviour found that women are generally more attracted to men with beards, especially older and fuller ones. The study, conducted by researchers from the University of New South Wales, found that women were least attracted to images of men who were clean-shaven or had five-day stubble. On the other hand, they responded positively to images of men with full beards or 10-day stubble. Perhaps this study is the reason why so many men are letting it grow out nowadays.
  3. The names Jack, James and Ryan: Richard Wiseman conducted “The Name Experiment” for the 2008 Edinburgh International Science Festival. The experiment sought to find what names people from the UK associated with luck, success and attractiveness. The results concluded that women found the name Ryan to be the most alluring name, followed by those of James and Jack. The name James was found to be most associated with success. With around 70 years of James Bond shoved down our throats it’s understandable to see why.

Enjoy this blog? Stay tuned to the Sexy Secrets Shop news section for more pieces on the world of sex. Check out our store to find a collection of more conventional things to turn women, and men, right on.

Soon to be SEXPO

We’re not going to lie, one of our favourite times of the year here at Sexy Secrets Shop has to be the annual Melbourne instalment of SEXPO. With a huge range of entertainment, from strip teases to all-out-fetish demonstrations, toys and more, SEXPO truly is like a wild and debaucherous Christmas for those who love a bit of adult fun. This year is set to be an absolute ripper, and whilst it may be a couple of months away (November, to be more specific) we here at Sexy Secret Shop are always happy to discuss the upcoming naughtiness of the occasion, in the hope that you too will share in the fun.

Read on to learn more about SEXPO 2017.

SEXPO Goes Retro 

Whilst the details may be few and far between for this year’s event, we do know this: the theme is ‘SEXPO Goes Retro’. This means, everyone who comes to join in on the fun gets to party like an adult star in the 70s. Wild, debaucherous, naughty, playful, and full of handlebar moustaches, the theme for this year’s event gets us all very excited for a bit of rock ‘n’ roll in a carnal environment.

There will be all the classic elements of SEXPO, but with the retro twist. This includes the world famous Amateur Strip, lounges, bars, hourly stage shows full of girls in old school lingerie and a bit less, the S.H.A.R.E Seminar Theatre, Laporium, Fetish Room and All Male Revue. Of course, there will be the usual array of vendors, sellers, lifestyle, health products, travel and more. The event gets bigger and bigger by the year.

Last years’ experience was an absolute blast, with an awesome turnout and some of the raunchiest fun we’ve ever seen at the event, so we can only assume the team at SEXPO is going to kick it up another gear. As long-time supporters of what is Australia’s most beloved sex event, Sexy Secret Shop can’t wait to see what they have in store for us this year. Whilst we know the details are lacking at the moment, the SEXPO webpage is dropping names like Lisa Ann and Brandy Aniston as part of the roster, so fingers crossed they find themselves coming down under to show off what has made them some of the biggest stars in the biz.

Watch this space.

The Sneaky Pleasures of Remote Anal Foreplay

The digital age has opened up new horizons for sensual stimulation. Sexual technology has come a long way since the early days of the rubber dildo, and you can now find advanced gadgets that can produce any kind of orgasm, at any location.

Case in point: remote anal stimulation. If you’re a girl or guy who loves a bit of public stimulation and enjoys the sneakiness of doing it on the sly, then remote-controlled anal toys are the perfect gadget for you. I began allowing my partner to control the remote about two months ago, and it has been one of the most thrilling sexual experiences I’ve ever had.

Read on if you want to find out more about the sneaky pleasures of remote anal foreplay.

F**ked From Afar 

I’ve always loved anal, and my partner really enjoys giving me anal pleasure, so when we heard about the remote-controlled Je Joue remote butt plug, it’s fair to say we both got a bit of a rush in our pants. That being said, when we had both originally heard “remote-controlled” we thought it meant nothing more than my partner sitting in front of me, controlling the motions of this plug, doing what we wanted with my bottom. In return, I would receive spontaneous, unpredictable anal pleasure.

That aspect was amazing: we spent hours with me laying on my back, legs spread and with an alien gadget inside of me being controlled at the speeds of which my partner pleased – it was a massive­ turn on for the both of us. Then, after one session of naughty anal stimulation we discovered that the remote could be used remotely. Being the adventurous types that we are we said hey, ‘why not take this to the next level?’

The next day at work, when things had quietened down, I slipped off to the bathroom and inserted the Je Joue you know where. I texted my partner saying, ‘when you’re ready’ and waited. The suspense was killing me, as I knew he was forcing me into a game ‘when’s this gonna happen?’ and about half an hour later I felt a light vibration up there. The stimulation and sneakiness of the whole thing sent me wild even before he had even turned it up to full. From now on, whenever I get the need for some stimulation of the back orifice whilst at the office, I turn to the Je Joue, available for purchase at Sexy Secrets Shop now.

Don’t Knock It Till Ya Try It: My First Time With A Sex Doll

I’ve seen Lars and the Real Girl. I love the film, but I honestly never thought that making love to an inflatable doll was something for me. The notion of inserting your member into an inflatable doll naturally seemed a little, let’s say, taboo to me, but that was until I tried it for the first time. That’s the to say I didn’t necessarily go out of my way to procure this doll either – it was a gift, but I eventually gave it a go, and I really enjoyed it.

It was something completely new, and definitely worth giving a try to enhance your times of self-satisfaction.

Read on to find out why breaking the taboo of making love to an inflatable sex doll is not the craziest thing you could be doing in the bedroom.

A Humorous Birthday Present, At First… 

It was my 25th birthday, and it’s fair to say I wasn’t getting too much action at that time. One of my mates was aware of this, as mates often are. He and few of the other boys thought it would be a laugh to get me a life size sex doll. I should really say that when I opened the wrapping, all my mates laughing, that I immediately thought of trowing the thing away – but I didn’t.

I thought ‘hey, why not actually give this thing a crack?’ we all went out that night and had a few beers, and when I arrived home at about four in the morning the box was sitting in the corner of my room. There are no two ways of explaining it – I made love to the blow-up doll. I thought it would be weird, and that I would be judging myself mercilessly during, but the pleasure was too much to knock.

I don’t bring out Katie Cougar every time I have a moment of self-indulgence, but when I do it’s a pretty pleasurable experience. If you don’t necessarily think it’s your thing I say to you this: you only live once, so why not allow yourself the experience of a blow-up doll? It’s probably not going to turn into a Lars and the Real Girl kind of situation, but it’s good for a try – I promise you.

You’re Hot And You’re Cold: Temperatures In The Bedroom

This is not something we’ve touched on to date at Sexy Secrets Shop, and it’s something can really enrich your sex life. The use of hot and cold temperatures in the bedroom is something enliven and invigorate your sexual areas and ultimately, your sexuality. From the use of ice in fellatio to applying warm water to the genitals and the power of a warm breath – a bit of hold and cold in the bedroom always has the power to change things up in the act of love.

Read on to find out more about these styles of seduction, and how they can enrich any occurrence of slap and tickle with lovers.

Ice Him Up 

Something that has come more to the forefront in recent years is the use of ice to create sexual stimulation. If you’re having a romantic evening in with strawberries and champagne, don’t be afraid to take a cube of ice from the bucket and stick it in your mouth before applying your lips to your man’s body and penis. First, use the cool liquid created by the ice and run your tongue down his body, into surprising places – not just down the middle. Go to where he’s more sensitive, down the side of the ribs is a nice little trick.

Eventually, with ice still in mouth, make your way to his member, and begin to initiate fellatio-magic. The sensation a man feels with cool water rushing along his shaft is something to take their arousal to a new level, and will have him wanting to return the favour. On the topic of returning the favour, cool water can feel nice for stimulating the clitoris too, if you so desire…

Warm Each Other Up 

Switching poles here, guys, but the senses can be just as aroused by the application of heat to your lover. Blow on your lover’s skin with that warm, sultry breath of yours, and he or she will become all fired up and ready for some heated loving. Make sure you blow on the erogenous zones: the neck, nipples, earlobes, and of course – the genitals. A guy gets really riled up by having his testicles blown on, and a bit of fanning breath does wonders for the clitoris.

Add Some Toys 

What’s an amazing way to further increase the heat in the bedroom? By adding some appendages, of course. Sexy Secrets Shop has an awesome collection of toys for guys and girls that are sure to fire things up in the bedroom, have a look for yourself at our online store.

Breaking Taboos: My First Time with a Bondage Kit

This isn’t your standard Fifty Shades of Grey fluffed up fictional story: this actually happened. I had never been one for using bondage equipment, that is to say I never even really thought about it up until this night. When those books came out it never in crossed my mind to read them and I still haven’t. I know what they’re about and why would I have to read about bondage when I can now enjoy it whenever I want? Why fantasise about something through some novel when I get to have the real deal? There is a first time for everything, and the first time I experienced the sexual pleasure of bondage was after my second ever Tinder date.

I was excited to have matched with this guy: he looked damn cute. In messages he was funny, came across as charming (as much as you can through messaging) so I thought hey, why the hell not go out with him? He exuded sexual energy from the moment I met him: flowing brown curls, a charismatic smile and personality and he had a gorgeous Mediterranean tan. I knew that although it was the first date we were going to end up sleeping with one another. The vibe was there, and he gave me those long, cheeky looks that say “yeah, we’re doing this” and I gave them back.

Going back to his place 

I went, of course I did, the sexual energy between us was just too overpowering. As soon as we got through his door we went for it: throwing each down onto the couch, the floor, wherever we could unleash our lust for one another. But all of a sudden he stopped and said, “wait here, I’ll just be a sec”. I barely had to time to catch my breath before he had come out from his bedroom with a leather carry bag. I was confused, maybe concerned, but with the utmost confidence he produced a gag, cuffs and a whip and asked, “are you keen?” I laughed and double took the contents of the bag but just said, “f**k it, I’m down”.

What transpired was an evening of sinful, sexual pleasure I can happily say I experience most times I go to bed with a guy (unless there more on the prudish side, of course).

I always get my gear from Sexy Secrets Shop: they always look after me, and they have the best bondage gear.

Introducing CalExotics: Leaders in Pleasure

Since 1994 CalExotics has been at the forefront of the pleasure industry, designing and producing high quality sexual novelties for men, women and couples. Sexy Secret Shop is proud to announce a saucy new partnership with this pioneer of pleasure. To assist with the announcement of this exciting new partnership we thought we would give you a little rundown on the company and their products.

A Californian thing 

It’s hardly exaggerated when people say that California is one of the world’s sensual hotspots, with a raft of high-tech toy companies being based there and a majority of the world’s adult film distribution coming from the state, so it can hardly come as a surprise that CalExotics found their name and place on the Best Coast. They started out as a way of creating research-driven, highly-pleasurable sexual apparatuses that were more intricate than your standard dildo. They put years of research into creating products for men, women and couples that provide not only the utmost level of comfort for users but also the highest level of pleasure.

With so many companies joining the fray since 1994 CalExotics’ longevity is a testament to their ability to provide pleasure on another plateau. They just keep growing and growing, and this is why we’re proud to have their products coming to our online store.

What can you expect? 

CalExotics don’t go making crazy adornments that turn out not to create pleasure and certainly don’t give satisfaction – they do the classics, and they do them well. You can expect all the favourites from them to be available at Sexy Secrets Shop: high-functioning and pleasure-providing dildos, vibrators, butt plugs, beads, whips, outfits – everything needed to take your night of pleasure to a night of erotic satisfaction on a whole new level. From the Dr Joel Kapalan Power Prostate Massage to the Sterling Collection™ Sleeve Set, you will soon be able to find a product at Sexy Secrets Shop from this special provider that will get your heartbeat racing and your sexual desire amplified.

It won’t be long 

We will soon have CalExotics’ products available at our online store, so don’t despair. It won’t be before too long that you get to enjoy the sensual pleasure provided by this special supplier. We are just as excited as you are, trust us. Watch this space for the introduction of exciting CalExotics products to Sexy Secrets Shop’s online store.