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How to give your sex life a makeover!

August 23, 2021

How to give your sex life a makeover!

How to give your sex life a makeover!
Get out of the sexual rut.

We’re about to shed some sexy secrets on how to give your relationship a renovation with a sex life makeover. It's so easy to get stuck in a rut, stuck doing the same old positions, in bed and getting it over and done with ASAP. Ladies and gents, it’s time to dust off the cobwebs and clear out the moths. We’re going to focus on how to make sex fun again!

Don’t restrict yourself to the bedroom
The bedroom may be the easiest and it may be the most comfortable, but a change of scenery could be just the thing to spice up your sex life. Clear off the dining room table, sit on the edge of the kitchen bench like the scene from 1986 erotic thriller 9 ½ Weeks, try it in the shower, lock yourself in the walk-in pantry while the kids are watching TV or slip on to the balcony of your apartment for a late night romp.

 Change positions
It’s time to flip things up—literally. You don’t have to be into circus acrobatics or an Olympic gymnast to try different positions. So many couples get lazy when it comes to sex. It becomes routine. Bed time becomes a quick fondle, lights off and Gone in 60 seconds if you’re lucky. Some of you may only get a nudge in the ribs with a “Roll over it’s time!”, but there are so many variations for you to discover explosive new sexual positions. Sitting in a chair, doggy style, women on top and by simply tilting your pelvis or adding a pillow can add a different range of sensations. Purchase Karma Sutra scratchies or purchase a pocket-sized version that allows you to tick off the positions as you check them off.

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Experiment with sex toys
If you’ve been too embarrassed to venture into an adult store, Sexy Secrets have made it much easier for you, by allowing you to shop discreetly online. There are an enormous range of different vibrators, butt plugs and remote control toys that will allow you to experiment with different sensations—alone or with your partner.

 If you’re more experienced, you can explore with a range of more advanced toys. There are always new sex toys being introduced as manufacturers create newer ways to enhance  your pleasure, or try branching out into toys that are a little more risqué—butt plugs, bigger dildos and remote control play. Wireless remote knickers and ‘Twistin the Night Away’ Remote Eggs can heighten sexual arousal and anticipation, especially if your partner is in charge of the remote while in public. Combine with blindfolds or restraints to level up your sex play. For extra risqué play, ask your partner to wear/or insert during a Skype or Zoom meeting.

Temperature Play
Sex toys that have been warmed (warning: do not place in the microwave), or glass butt plugs or plastic dildos that have been place in the freezer can provide intense sensations.
If you’re on a budget, ice cubes trailed across nips and lips can provide added sensation and heighten any experience during foreplay.


Drive your partner wild by using soft restraints to restrict their movement and then masturbation just out of their reach, so they can hear every groan and see you climax. The sexual anticipation will drive them too distraction and leave them begging for your touch. Try recording yourself on your phone for a private viewing session next time you’re in the mood. 

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